Absolutely
None of us who have been following this journey of care would ever think you were selfish or keeping Simon alive for yourself. You are giving him all the time he can enjoy, and you are actualy aware of his changes from day to day. You are taking it one day at a time, loving him completely one day at a time, and that takes courage. We all know you will help him along his journey when it is time, and anyone who has been through something like this knows that you will know it's time when you do, and not before. Trust that you will know. I know that you will know because he will tell you, and you will get it.