My boyfriends mom waits on her husband hand and foot and it drives me mad!! I feel like if we are both owrking then you can pitch in and help me out. If I cook you clena up hte kitchen after (that doesn't happen) if I do the laundery you put it away. 50/50. Lee knows not to expect me to cater to him in anyways. Sometimes I will bring him his plate or drink or whatever but not on a regular basis! That is crazy!