Exactly!Originally Posted by Natalie_ca
I wanted to add something to my earlier response.
What is there to compromise about? Based on everything you posted, this woman is a liar.
As I said before, when you started dating you had a cat. When you got engaged you still had the cat. When you agreed to buy a house and move in together you still had the cat!
During all of this she has obviously seen how much that cat means to you and how much you love it.
During all of these times she told you she was fine with the cat, and now after your signatures are on a house mortgage, suddenly she isn't!? She's been lying to you all of this time! That's not the basis of a good and sound relationship.
So far as I can see there is nothing to compromise about. You were a package deal when you started to date, and you are still the same package deal now. If she can't accept that, then really you need to re-evaluate this woman and your relationship with her.