I live with my mom so when im not around shes there to take care of our cats but when im around i have one cat that starts having allergic reactions she scratches at her skin till she bleeds and has seizers. When i actually pet her its 100 times worse. When im gone for a few days at a time shes completely fine I've tried only using the soap and shampoo and conditioner and deoderant as my to see if thats the problem but she still only has these problems when im around she has messed up the tip of her tail pretty badly bc of it and bc of it my mom is making me get rid of her but no one wants to take in a sick cat and we cant afford vet bills