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Agreed, we don't want to stress out Cilla.
I don't know if I want to have gates up with Cilla in Sherry Spice's area. Because I don't want her to feel "trapped". I want her to be confident that she can move wherever whenever.
What does Cilla do in Sherry Spice's area? Are you able to see/watch?
When you showed Sherry Spice Cilla in the master did Cilla notice? Or was Cilla sleeping?
It is great that Sherry Spice doesn't care that Cilla is there. That means she isn't afraid of her. GREAT.
Yes, I agree, we are in a good place, we don't want a major setback. BUT we do need to get them together trying to make it as positive as possible. How, is the difficult question.
I would like to step up the site swapping with Cilla going in Sherry Spice's area while you distract Sherry Spice in the master (if this is possible). As long as the answer to the above question is "Cilla acts normal in Sherry Spice's area". Doesn't slink around or mark etc.
Part of me wonders if when Cilla is in the master we have no gates up but you shadow Sherry Spice. Your presence might cause Cilla to just observe IF Cilla decides to take a look. Then we watch their body language and how they act. If there is no chase etc then we have a positive. And we build on that.
You have done a great job, this is not an easy situation for a couple of reasons. But I think you are well on your way to success. We just need to wrap this up. This is where the art comes in. Your knowledge and instincts are great so let me know what you think.
I don't know if I want to have gates up with Cilla in Sherry Spice's area. Because I don't want her to feel "trapped". I want her to be confident that she can move wherever whenever.
What does Cilla do in Sherry Spice's area? Are you able to see/watch?
When you showed Sherry Spice Cilla in the master did Cilla notice? Or was Cilla sleeping?
It is great that Sherry Spice doesn't care that Cilla is there. That means she isn't afraid of her. GREAT.
Yes, I agree, we are in a good place, we don't want a major setback. BUT we do need to get them together trying to make it as positive as possible. How, is the difficult question.
I would like to step up the site swapping with Cilla going in Sherry Spice's area while you distract Sherry Spice in the master (if this is possible). As long as the answer to the above question is "Cilla acts normal in Sherry Spice's area". Doesn't slink around or mark etc.
Part of me wonders if when Cilla is in the master we have no gates up but you shadow Sherry Spice. Your presence might cause Cilla to just observe IF Cilla decides to take a look. Then we watch their body language and how they act. If there is no chase etc then we have a positive. And we build on that.
You have done a great job, this is not an easy situation for a couple of reasons. But I think you are well on your way to success. We just need to wrap this up. This is where the art comes in. Your knowledge and instincts are great so let me know what you think.