I need help with introductions.
I have a resident cat, Cilla, that was adopted at 3 months, feral. She lived merrily with 4 friends, for 12 years, also all born feral. We lost 4 cats in 3 years. When Cilla (a Siamese) lost her last best friend, she went into severe depression. She has never bonded with us, though she has always been completely inside. 3 months after the loss of our beloved (and Cillas) Presley, we adopted a 6 yr old female Tortie from the shelter. We call her Sherry-Spice. She is very sweet. However, we have not been able to get Cilla and Sherry-Spice together. They are also separated by baby gates or a glass door. I've tried everything I have read about introductions, etc. The problem is I can't touch Cilla, she doesn't play and doesn't eat "treats". I've tried feliway (which seemed to make her more aggressive). I currently have both of them on Zylkene, which does seem to calm them. I switch baby gates around, so each one has a chance to be out in the common areas of our home, and get a chance to mix smells. So far, everytime they see each other Cillas tail get huge and tries to attack. Sherry-Spice screams in fear. The few times I have tried putting them together, Cilla immediately attacked Sherry-Spice. I am afraid, because if Cilla gets hurt, I can never get her in a carrier to the vet, or get close enough to her to treat an injury.
I've had cats all my life and never had this much of an issue getting cats together.
Any advise would be appreciated.
I have a resident cat, Cilla, that was adopted at 3 months, feral. She lived merrily with 4 friends, for 12 years, also all born feral. We lost 4 cats in 3 years. When Cilla (a Siamese) lost her last best friend, she went into severe depression. She has never bonded with us, though she has always been completely inside. 3 months after the loss of our beloved (and Cillas) Presley, we adopted a 6 yr old female Tortie from the shelter. We call her Sherry-Spice. She is very sweet. However, we have not been able to get Cilla and Sherry-Spice together. They are also separated by baby gates or a glass door. I've tried everything I have read about introductions, etc. The problem is I can't touch Cilla, she doesn't play and doesn't eat "treats". I've tried feliway (which seemed to make her more aggressive). I currently have both of them on Zylkene, which does seem to calm them. I switch baby gates around, so each one has a chance to be out in the common areas of our home, and get a chance to mix smells. So far, everytime they see each other Cillas tail get huge and tries to attack. Sherry-Spice screams in fear. The few times I have tried putting them together, Cilla immediately attacked Sherry-Spice. I am afraid, because if Cilla gets hurt, I can never get her in a carrier to the vet, or get close enough to her to treat an injury.
I've had cats all my life and never had this much of an issue getting cats together.
Any advise would be appreciated.