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They climbed over the gates at times? Was it the 3 gates at that time? What happened after they climbed over? How did they interact?
The squabbles happen every night? But only when the glass door is closed? Do the squabbles happen even when you are not in the room but the door is closed?
Did Cilla ever spend a lot of time in that room before?
I am trying to understand why the reaction with the door (and not the gate) and why Cilla wants to get in at night (it could be envy).
GREAT that Cilla sits at the gate calmly with no tail swishing. No aggression. Huge positive but I am trying to reconcile it with the behavior with the door.
GREAT that Cilla can be distracted. We would like to distract with something good (food, play) but Cilla is a bit different so any distraction is good when needed. Any time we avert a negative encounter it is a positive.
Yes, that sound is fear. We would like her to be more confident in that area so she doesn't act like prey. I truly believe a confident cat is less likely to attack or be attacked. It is good that she was resilient after that recent chase.
Cilla's tail is still fat now? It is only with the glass door, correct?
How much time does Cilla spend in front of the gate?
I don't like that they are staring so much. Is it a staring that suggests "hey, come out and hang out with me" or s it a staring like "don't even think about coming into my territory"? I do like that they can fall asleep with teh other one there staring though.
What is your sense of where they are at?
The squabbles happen every night? But only when the glass door is closed? Do the squabbles happen even when you are not in the room but the door is closed?
Did Cilla ever spend a lot of time in that room before?
I am trying to understand why the reaction with the door (and not the gate) and why Cilla wants to get in at night (it could be envy).
GREAT that Cilla sits at the gate calmly with no tail swishing. No aggression. Huge positive but I am trying to reconcile it with the behavior with the door.
GREAT that Cilla can be distracted. We would like to distract with something good (food, play) but Cilla is a bit different so any distraction is good when needed. Any time we avert a negative encounter it is a positive.
Yes, that sound is fear. We would like her to be more confident in that area so she doesn't act like prey. I truly believe a confident cat is less likely to attack or be attacked. It is good that she was resilient after that recent chase.
Cilla's tail is still fat now? It is only with the glass door, correct?
How much time does Cilla spend in front of the gate?
I don't like that they are staring so much. Is it a staring that suggests "hey, come out and hang out with me" or s it a staring like "don't even think about coming into my territory"? I do like that they can fall asleep with teh other one there staring though.
What is your sense of where they are at?