I'm such a wreck.
When John & I first started dating, he PROMISED me that he stopped doing all drugs - he had smoked weed and done other things, but when I met him, he was only smoking weed. I really didn't like that and I promised to help him stop. Since we've been together - 1 year ago last month, he had only done it 2 times (that he told me).
Anyways - recently, I had been hearing that he had been doing it again, and I confronted him about it, and he said 'No, I promise, I'm not'. I took his word - I trusted him.
Today, we had a big blowout and I asked him again, because a good friend told me that he heard John was doing it again and didn't want me to get hurt.
So, he tells me: "I have smoked at least once or twice a month since we've been together". I just blew up, I gave him his ring back he gave me when we started dating (A 1/2 carat princess cut ring), I threw it at him and stormed off, he came after me saying he was sorry - but now, how do I trust him? How do I know he's not doing it all the time now?
I told him that I can't be with someone forever that breaks a BIG promise like that.
I'm heartbroken and a total wreck. I need some advice here... what would you do? How would you handle this? I just don't know anymore, I'm seriously wondering if all the pain and heart ache is worth it?
When John & I first started dating, he PROMISED me that he stopped doing all drugs - he had smoked weed and done other things, but when I met him, he was only smoking weed. I really didn't like that and I promised to help him stop. Since we've been together - 1 year ago last month, he had only done it 2 times (that he told me).
Anyways - recently, I had been hearing that he had been doing it again, and I confronted him about it, and he said 'No, I promise, I'm not'. I took his word - I trusted him.
Today, we had a big blowout and I asked him again, because a good friend told me that he heard John was doing it again and didn't want me to get hurt.
So, he tells me: "I have smoked at least once or twice a month since we've been together". I just blew up, I gave him his ring back he gave me when we started dating (A 1/2 carat princess cut ring), I threw it at him and stormed off, he came after me saying he was sorry - but now, how do I trust him? How do I know he's not doing it all the time now?
I told him that I can't be with someone forever that breaks a BIG promise like that.
I'm heartbroken and a total wreck. I need some advice here... what would you do? How would you handle this? I just don't know anymore, I'm seriously wondering if all the pain and heart ache is worth it?