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A pet is certainly a beautiful "addition" to the family. But it can never come close to the beloved members of the family. Things will change, but that does not necessarily mean that it is bad. You will think of your child first, just as every other good parent does. But I disagree that now you won't want to spend money to heal your cat.
I was talking to my sister about my cat being sick recently and how i had to spend money. And she commented that if i ever have children that is going to change. That i will think of my child first and i wont want to spend money healing my cat.
This confuses me, because i always see a pet as a family, you took responsibility when you adopted this pet to care for it, the rest of its life. If a pet is sick, you make sacrifices to heal the pet.
Right now, its just me and my elderly mom, we dont have much money but we sacrificed what we had to take Kitty to the vet. How will having a child suddenly make me sacrifice my animal just to save money for my kids?
She says i will want to save the money for my kids instead in case they have an emergency.
Will i change my mind once i have kids?
Yes, you will put your daughter or son first. And of course you will still want to care for your cat, and would want to do what you needed to in order to heal your cat-- just not at the expense of your son or daughter. Putting your children first just means you love and are committed to your children more than to your cat. In the cases of a really bad financial crises, you can still find a way for them to not only get a way to be healed, but still be part of a loving home where they will be treated with goodness and love, by giving them to a trust-worthy new home. That is, if it comes down to that point. After all, who would be most important to you? This way, both of your loved ones are still being taken really good care of.
But if you're not in that bad financial situation, and you're able to provide everything that is needed for them both, then there really is no difference. Except for the fact that your little angel who just arrived from the womb will hold first place in both your heart and your home.
P.S. Many cat lovers have actually expressed feeling that their cats and their babies are both their children. You might feel that same way as well. It's also a pleasure to see how happy your pets make your child/ren, and how they lift them up and put a smile on your child/rens face. Just Absolutely Priceless.