Yes I agree, yesterday the pics showing his glare while in sleeping position was very unsettling, he needs sleep, so it's very good if he is able to. Sleep means turning off sights and sounds for the most part, or at least lessening them, completely undisturbed sleep heals. It allows his brain to rest some rather than thinking of the sounds and sights, etc and resting his brain means focus on healing.
I fell asleep for a little bit and woke up and there was a little bit of red pee(it didn't look purely red, like blood) near the litter box, and then he tried to go a little but just sat down instead. I took him out and put him down on the couch to sit and pet him, but he jumped off and laid down in the kitchen. My brother suffered from serious asthma when he was younger, so we have a mini nebulizer and some medicine. I looked up the type we had and it said it was safe, but I diluted it a lot and tried getting him to breathe the "steam". Before, his sides were heaving like earlier, but now it seems to have slowed down some, to 40 breaths a minute. Still high, but it doesnt look as painful as before. I know human meds are a no-no for cats, but I don't think it could get much worse. Listening to him, it still sounds like shuddering/purring when he breathes, but it's not as bad as before. Oxygen would probably definitely be beneficial again, but I don't think I could drag him out to another vet again today even if I did have the money.
Currently, he's lying in the kitchen again with his eyes closed, "sleeping". Its not as disconcerting as yesterday, when he wouldnt close his eyes and just stared, like he was sleeping with his eyes open, as somebody said earlier.
The vet did say that she suspected aspiration pneumonia. I know it's bad. I'm hoping the antibiotics help him, and that he makes it to tomorrow morning when I can give him more. At midnight I can give him more pain meds to hopefully relief some discomfort.
Thank you all.
Believe me, it's either focused on healing if he is able, or on dying, and shutting down bit by bit.
Not saying that he is, I mean that's how a cat works. All on healing, if unable, then all on shutting down.
So, sleep is good
I just want to say that you have all of us here thinking of you and Booty, I will be up for another couple of hours then will be back first thing.
Hoping for a bit of light in the am, a glimmer of hope.