Well I guess I would throw it back on the BF if it was me. You DONT want the cat declawed, it's YOUR cat, and you have many reasons supporting your decision.
Ask him WHY he thinks it's in the CATS best interest to be declawed. Make him give you a reasonable argument. Until then, it's a non-issue.
Ask him WHY he thinks it's in the CATS best interest to be declawed. Make him give you a reasonable argument. Until then, it's a non-issue.