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My gosh, sounds like he's tried every trick in the book. If he only knew how text book he is. He probably thinks he's the worlds cleverest XXXXXXX
Bletch!
Bletch!
I'm glad you have a friend who can come bail you out if you need it.Originally Posted by Leto86
I told my friends that set us up/we went camping with... and she didn't really say much.. so I'm not sure if she's upset or what. She'll be back form Oshawa tomorrow and I'll talk to her and find out.
I agree. Keep us posted Sarah, okay?Originally Posted by CatMom2Wires
You REALLY need to stop talking to him. Stay away from the dog park. It is established now that he will hang there, waiting for you to show. If you continue to do things in places where you think he "might" show up, then you truly have NOT ended the relationship, and you're only asking for more trouble.
I can't see that you need to say much to your "friend" either. She will only repeat it to the "boy" and how can that help anything? I suggest you simply say, "It wasn't working, I had to end it" and leave it at that. You can't talk the situation out of its reality.
This is scary, creepy and DANGEROUS.
Best of luck to you.
Really excellent advice. I agree with every word.Originally Posted by calico2222
In a situation like this, it's awkward at first. As strange as it sounds, you dumped him (good job!!) and they may feel like they have to console him for now. They probably feel like they are caught in the middle (not your fault at all!!). You never know, maybe he was stalking them too, or ambushed them into dinner (sounds like the type) and they couldn't get rid of him. Give it time.
One thing I've learned is true friends will be there in the end. I'm not saying they aren't true friends, it may just take a day or two of adjusting to the new situation. Or, they may not be true friends and in that case you don't need them. Easy to say, I know, but it's the truth.
Hang in there sweetie.