Oh, please, please be strong and get out of this relationship!
I know I'm just reiterating what everyone else has said to you. I was in the same kind of controlling, abusive relationship. He couldn't even hold down a job, because he wanted to be with me all of the time. He isolated me from all of my friends, he limited my phone calls by answering MY phone and telling them I couldn't come to the phone. I couldn't even spend time with my family, without him retaliating and becoming verbally abusive. Then one day, when I tried to do something that he didn't approve of, he beat me. I was smart and called the police, and had him put in jail. When he got out, I had a personal protection order against him. He stalked me for 18 months. I'd find footprints all around the house in the snow. I called the police, but they couldn't do anything, because they didn't catch him in the act.
Please get out of this relationship, before it becomes physically abusive. They nearly always do. You might not be as lucky as I was....I only got bruises.
I will keep you in my prayers. Please be strong....
I know I'm just reiterating what everyone else has said to you. I was in the same kind of controlling, abusive relationship. He couldn't even hold down a job, because he wanted to be with me all of the time. He isolated me from all of my friends, he limited my phone calls by answering MY phone and telling them I couldn't come to the phone. I couldn't even spend time with my family, without him retaliating and becoming verbally abusive. Then one day, when I tried to do something that he didn't approve of, he beat me. I was smart and called the police, and had him put in jail. When he got out, I had a personal protection order against him. He stalked me for 18 months. I'd find footprints all around the house in the snow. I called the police, but they couldn't do anything, because they didn't catch him in the act.
Please get out of this relationship, before it becomes physically abusive. They nearly always do. You might not be as lucky as I was....I only got bruises.
I will keep you in my prayers. Please be strong....