I'm sorry to tell you this but they certainly do have favourites. I'm not one of them. Cry.Oh, so cool about Josie and Gracie. :9: They also probably just loved sleeping with you guys, and/or just hanging out in the bedroom. :smile2:
(Now, you have me thinking what our cats would actually do with a bag of gold. 2 of my four would probably just spend it, boys, and the 3rd boy and girl would invest or save it.)
Maybe, what you can do...before your husband has to go back, is make sure to keep some of his clothes, and not wash them.
(I know your husband might think..."no way, I like that shirt, pants, I need my clothes"..."there is no way I'm giving my clothes to our cats"....But it would only be temporary, and would only be used if Chester starts to retreat into his crate again, or begins that glaring look. If Chester seems fine, then the clothes can be washed.) Maybe an old t-shirt would do.
In all honesty, I really don't think our cats have favourites, they just love seeing everyone in their pack/family,:rub: :cat: and they change who they spend time with, from day to day, or hour to hour.
I figure they have to make the rounds, as in check on everyone, and all their territory, too.