WHAT??? I don't believe I'm reading this.....So far, she advises letting him go as organs are shutting down........
On what basis is she making that statement ? I'm sorry, but this is just beyond the pale. NO competent Veterinarian would proclaim that without examining the cat and having a supporting blood chemistry workup.
It may be that she is 'mirroring' back to you the unfocused messages you've been giving us:
None of that is nor will help him get through this.
I am not sure i can do this, it breaks my heart.... why is he not responding??
He is getting worse.
I am sure his liver must be a mess.
My poor cat, i cant stop crying....
Will he ever fully recover,or am i prolonging his suffering? On the other hand if we euthanize him.....
I'm sounding very 'cold' here - it's NOT to criticize you nor your natural emotional reactions to what's going on. It IS meant to help you regain your focus on the facts before you.
I've been where you seem to be right now. It is often overwhelming - it certainly was for me.
Is there anyone whom you implicitly trust who might be able to help you assess the facts that are 'on the table' ?
Just as an example, it's only been 14 hours since you returned from his receiving the antibiotic shot.....you certainly should NOT be expecting that to have cured the infection by now. You were told that many cats appear to worsen after receiving Convenia - that this is "normal" - yet, it seems that you didn't "get" any of that when you posted "he's getting worse".
Now I've just read your update......unless she's outright refusing to give you the a/d, "get it and feed it" would be my advice.
And, as for
It sounds like you are inclined to predetermine the outcome here - without regard to allowing every opportunity for positive change - IF that is happening, then no amount of input here will deter it.If things go downhill during the weekend, we take him to ER, most likely to be put to sleep
Again, is there anyone you could call upon to act as a cool, calm and collected observer who could keep your focus on the facts ?