Stay home for a while and then back to work. I took 6 months off after my daughter was born, and it was great!
see, as far as this kind of stuff goes, I really don't think it has anything to do with the mom working but everything to do with what kind of parents they are. and from what you've told us about these parents, both of them could be home and the kids would still turn out messed upOriginally Posted by lionessrampant
Myself, I was all ready to be a working mom until I sarted babysitting these kids whose parents both work full time. I could never do that to my children. It's easy to tell that these are bright kids who have never, never gotten the attention they need from their parents...especially school-wise (we're talking a 10-year old who can't spell words like "this" or "talk"). Yeah, sure, they show up to basketball games and school pageants, which is important, but you have to be there to know what's going on with your kids at all times, what's happening in their lives. Most of the time, kids won't talk, so you have to watch and monitor.