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You make a good point. We all may be picturing something different here, when talking about belly exposure.Originally Posted by SamhainBorn
I did not read this entire post but the "submissive flopping" sounds like my mother's cat. How much socialization did your cat get as a kitten? did it have littermates? My mom's cat suffers from "single kitten syndrome" being the only kittne born in the litter, and she wasn't handled much as a kitten. Now she does do a submissive flop when you want to pick her up or anything.
it's not the soft stretch pet-me pose. she's half on her side and half curled, ears back, eyes mostly closed and very stiff all over, like she's cringing. Is this the behavior of your cat? My mother's cat has gotten better with time, but will probably never be a social, lovey dovey kitty.
Your cat is young enough that you may still have time to help correct this behavior. Now I'll go back and read the other posts and see if anyone said anything similar.
A cat that flops on the floor, rolls over, stretches out and shows tum, all in a happy way, is showing love and trust. However, even a pose like that, many cats will jump up if someone tries to reach down for that Yummy Tummy. I call this "Lookee, no touchee!"
What you describe is certainly not the same thing at all, not at all.