Let me just say that I do love my daughter and her four children first before I get into this.. Sorry it will be kind of long.
My daughter and the kids moved in here with Ken and I about 2 months ago when Dad was first put into the hospital. She moved in to get out of a bad situation with her ex. Okay I was glad for her to get out and willing to help all that I could.
I found out that she really left the ex, not only for the abuse but also to see another man. Okay I don't have a problem with that either. But the man she is seeing now is married and has 2 children of his own
I do have a major problem with that.
Right now I feel like Ken and I have been used. Used for somone to cover her tracks about the married man, used for built in baby sitters,etc.etc.etc.
I have tried talking to her in a rational manor and she just gets all defensive and smirks in my face about the situatuion with the married man. She came in from work a little while ago and started telling me all about the man's wife confronting her and him on her job today. I can't feel sorry for her about this at all. I see someone I donot know when I look at my daughter now. I told her she needed to leave before I physically hurt her today. I can't and want put up with this in my house! If I am wrong then so be it.
My daughter and the kids moved in here with Ken and I about 2 months ago when Dad was first put into the hospital. She moved in to get out of a bad situation with her ex. Okay I was glad for her to get out and willing to help all that I could.
I found out that she really left the ex, not only for the abuse but also to see another man. Okay I don't have a problem with that either. But the man she is seeing now is married and has 2 children of his own
Right now I feel like Ken and I have been used. Used for somone to cover her tracks about the married man, used for built in baby sitters,etc.etc.etc.
I have tried talking to her in a rational manor and she just gets all defensive and smirks in my face about the situatuion with the married man. She came in from work a little while ago and started telling me all about the man's wife confronting her and him on her job today. I can't feel sorry for her about this at all. I see someone I donot know when I look at my daughter now. I told her she needed to leave before I physically hurt her today. I can't and want put up with this in my house! If I am wrong then so be it.