Chee
I'm very sorry to see that you've gone through so much pain. I have no idea what it's like to lose a brother, but I do know losing my dad was no picnic either. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope you can gain a good friend or two here from the site. There's a lot of great people on it.
Colby
I know we haven't talked much Colby, but I am very sorry about your Mom. I don't know what I would do without mine at times. There's been someone that I seem to take advantage of sometimes and that is someone I love the most. I see how I do that with my Mom; thanks for reminding me how fragile life is and how I should cherish each moment I have with her.
On a much more uplifting note, I'm truly happy that you've made such wonderful friends in your life. I sincerely believe your Mother is looking after you.
Love & Peace,
Catarina