I think people should do whatever they prefer. I know women who didn't change their name; hyphenated their names; the DH took the wife's name; the couple made up a new last name; etc. I work in administration in the biotech industry and it's very common for female scientists not to change their names. Same with a lot of other professions (doctors, laywers, writers, etc). We also have a lot of foreign employees and culturally a lot people don't change their names either. So don't worry, you're in good company with your decision.
Personally, I struggled a bit with changing my name. My DH's name is easier to say and spell than my name, but I liked my name. And I preferred the sound of it over my new name. It was a hassle to have to change it legally but I'm comfortable with my decision. Fortunately my DH and in-laws would have supported me either way, so it truly was my call, without outside interference.
Personally, I struggled a bit with changing my name. My DH's name is easier to say and spell than my name, but I liked my name. And I preferred the sound of it over my new name. It was a hassle to have to change it legally but I'm comfortable with my decision. Fortunately my DH and in-laws would have supported me either way, so it truly was my call, without outside interference.