I have to agree. If the OP is truly as frustrated as he appears in his post, then criticism and personal attacks may likely inspire him to become even more frustrated and angry. And the recipients of this anger will likely be the 2 helpless cats he lives with. I think we as animal lovers need to control our emotions and do and say what will most likely have the most positive impact on the animals in question.Originally Posted by Camille Eonich
I hate this about most pet forums, I mean the knee jerk reactions. Why would someone who doesn't care take the time to search out this forum and write a post describing all of the problems and worries that this person is experiencing if they didn't truly want help?
Yet they get attacked instead. To all of you who chose to take the time to post your negative feelings wouldn't your time be better spent searching for something that you can HELP with?
You might not like the OP's tone or style, but to his credit he did seek out this forum and ask for help. For the sake of his cats, I think we should offer him that.
My advice to Wolf: feed the cats before you go to bed at night. Then they won't be hungry at 5 am. And btw, with a new baby, 5am should seem like you're sleeping in