I think sometimes when we feel we're being helpful, we come off as being too blunt and thoughtless. Especially when it feels like someone is "attacking" our beloved pets. I did jump to conclusions after reading her post, so I apologize. It's true that maybe he is just ignorant, not intentionally being mean. I immediately thought that he was a vicious person for not wanting medical care for her cat rather than thinking maybe he doesn't understand what goes into cat healthcare.