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I had to put down my fifteen year old due to stomach cancer in November. She had a pal she'd known almost her whole life. They were very close and also both extremely attached to me.
I live with my mom who has a five year old she adopted two years ago.
I've been Ashley's human for her entire life. Honey is bonded to my mom.
I adopted a ten week old feral kitten in late December. She was going to have me as her human, and we were hoping she'd also accept Ashley.
Things are confusing for all of them now, especially for the little one (Holly).
Holly sees the relationship between me and Ashley, and my mom & her cat. She's struggling to fit in. She's been fighting the other two cats for territory since we adopted her. She's a very sweet cat and was fostered extremely well; she just is having trouble figuring out the household.
We have three Feliway diffusers going, and we aren't pushing her to choose anyone, but the older kitties are obviously concerned about losing their respective human.
Can anyone give me advice as to how to smooth things over here? Re-homing is not going to happen, and I know maybe I should have waited until Ashley had crossed over, but the decision was made & here we are.
Thank you!
I live with my mom who has a five year old she adopted two years ago.
I've been Ashley's human for her entire life. Honey is bonded to my mom.
I adopted a ten week old feral kitten in late December. She was going to have me as her human, and we were hoping she'd also accept Ashley.
Things are confusing for all of them now, especially for the little one (Holly).
Holly sees the relationship between me and Ashley, and my mom & her cat. She's struggling to fit in. She's been fighting the other two cats for territory since we adopted her. She's a very sweet cat and was fostered extremely well; she just is having trouble figuring out the household.
We have three Feliway diffusers going, and we aren't pushing her to choose anyone, but the older kitties are obviously concerned about losing their respective human.
Can anyone give me advice as to how to smooth things over here? Re-homing is not going to happen, and I know maybe I should have waited until Ashley had crossed over, but the decision was made & here we are.
Thank you!