Hi all! Buttercup is doing so well and we knew she was a feral kitten and would be shy with new situations. She’s so wonderful with us, especially me she sleeps under the covers and reaches out with one claw and hooks my t shirt and pulls it close. Aww! My room is her “safe” zone, and I’ve been slowly blocking “unders” and providing cat furniture instead. Two problems are one: she loves to cuddle but HATES being picked up, she’s terrified of it. She will cry and claw and immediately try to leap off, sometimes I’m terrified she will hurt herself doing this. It makes it extremely hard if I need to crate her, move her etc. Any tips? I’ve tried acting like I’m going to pick her up but not, but when I get her her awful leaps and landings must co firm her fear. Also, she’s TERRIFIED of visitors, she will not come out from under my bed, and held it for hours the other day when we had a guest. She ran to the litter box the moment he left. She never even sees them, and both visitors have been people who understand and would ignore her to make her feel safe anyway. Should I close my bedroom door? I’ve considered felliway and zylkene, I’m trying to watch my budget though. Thanks for ideas!!