For the watering issue- have you tried Moisture control potting soil? It has beads in it that absorb moisture and releases it slowly. You can also buy the beads and add it to your soil. I haven't done much this year because I have a bad knee. It limits my mobility. Until I get that taken care of there isn't much I can do for extended periods of time. I have some seeds started (tomatoes, peppers and some flowers) but will wait until the end of May to plant. We had a freeze again this morning. My yard is a mess!!