As most of you know my sister is getting married on the 16th. She gave us 2 weeks notice. At first she told us she wanted to do a spa day for her bachelorette party thing. Well none of us can afford it on a 2 weeks notice. Now she wants to go to dinner the night before but I have plans to be at a state race with my boyfriend that night. We have had this race planned for atleast 4 months. I think she is mad at me becuase I am not doing her party with her but she can't really expect me to change all my plans that I have had for months to suit her wants becuase she sprung a wedding on us with 2 weeks notice can she?