My problem is that he keeps telling you lies (what you want to hear), you believe them, then you are let down in a big way. Not cool.
I had some friends that had been together for many years (about 7) when they got engaged. Shortly before the wedding, like a few weeks, they broke up. They just weren't ready. Truth be told they never would be. It just wasn't right. They no longer speak and both are with other people now.
Then my best friend got engaged and married within a year of knowing the person, many years later they are living happily ever after. They were a great match, and they both knew it. It is so subjective based on each couple, not age, who you have been with before, or this or that, for everyone it is different.
If you are wanting more...and he doesn't...please think about that closely. Your thoughts and opinions matter. Sounds like you have already put pressure on him to no avail. That speaks more than his words IMO.
You can bet he does feel pressure, why don't you talk to him about his fears and concerns.
I had some friends that had been together for many years (about 7) when they got engaged. Shortly before the wedding, like a few weeks, they broke up. They just weren't ready. Truth be told they never would be. It just wasn't right. They no longer speak and both are with other people now.
Then my best friend got engaged and married within a year of knowing the person, many years later they are living happily ever after. They were a great match, and they both knew it. It is so subjective based on each couple, not age, who you have been with before, or this or that, for everyone it is different.
If you are wanting more...and he doesn't...please think about that closely. Your thoughts and opinions matter. Sounds like you have already put pressure on him to no avail. That speaks more than his words IMO.
You can bet he does feel pressure, why don't you talk to him about his fears and concerns.