They are that inconsiderate!Originally Posted by strange_wings
^ There has to be something severely wrong with them mentally... Really, eating your son's lunch? Are they that inconsiderate or just plain stupid?
I'm sorry that you've had to learn the lesson of what being nice to people can get you - walked all over and taken advantage of.
I hope you can get them out soon, don't take any excuses and don't let them draw you into a fight. Tell them they're out and it's final. Good luck.
Oh my- I'm so sorry you have to go through this!Originally Posted by Dixie_Darlin
They are that inconsiderate!
I think she is a tad slow but that's not what bothers me, it's her nasty NASTY attitude.
She acts like people owe her everything because she's pregnant.
I'm envious!Originally Posted by Sneakymom
At least with the situation with the neighbors- they aren't inside my house 24/7!
Originally Posted by Dixie_Darlin
This morning Justice when to get his lunchbox out of the fridge, they ate his lunch for school!!! :rant:
And then, her sisters power was shut off so she decided to cuss him out, and throw MY phone at the wall and almost broke it.
And then Brandon told her to specifically not eat something in the kitchen, that is was mine.. what did she do? Laugh, and ate it!
Pack their bags and throw them out!!. Not tomorrow or the next day, do it now!.Originally Posted by Dixie_Darlin
So now, she's threatening to have the power shut off because it's in her name. When we moved here, she offered to have it just transferred from her sisters because they had moved also. Otherwise, we would have had to pay a $386.00 deposit on the power and we didn't have that kind of money when we moved.
This! I agree.Originally Posted by strange_wings
Use what they gave you to go get it transfered?
I would but the money has to go to the rent because the landlord with us when we moved in. She took $350 to move in and we agreed to have her the other $325 by today.Originally Posted by cococat
This! I agree.
That's what I was thinking too. But now I'm left with the impression, based on her later posts, that it was a room-mate arrangement between her and her boyfriend and this other couple, from the beginning when they moved to the house, and now it's not working out, so they want them to move out.Originally Posted by Yosemite
I was under the impression that this was yours and Brandon's place - I thought you folks were the tenants and paying all the bills. If they have paid some of the bills (sounds like they paid about half), then they have every right to be there too. Seems like the only way you are going to get rid of them is if you and Brandon and the boys move again.
Trouble follows you around woman.
Originally Posted by Yosemite
I was under the impression that this was yours and Brandon's place - I thought you folks were the tenants and paying all the bills. If they have paid some of the bills (sounds like they paid about half), then they have every right to be there too. Seems like the only way you are going to get rid of them is if you and Brandon and the boys move again.
Trouble follows you around woman.
Maybe I didn't make it clear about this. It is mine and Brandon's house. Their names are NOT on the lease, we paid the deposit for her to put it in her name because I was too busy trying to make everything happen around here.. IE, packing, arranging the U-Haul, meeting with the landlord, and our lawyer... and so on.Originally Posted by Natalie_ca
That's what I was thinking too. But now I'm left with the impression, based on her later posts, that it was a room-mate arrangement between her and her boyfriend and this other couple, from the beginning when they moved to the house, and now it's not working out, so they want them to move out.
If that is the case, then there really isn't anything you can do other than break your lease and move out to another place and leave them there to fend for themselves.
If their names are on the lease too, and you are paying your share of the rent and they aren't, perhaps the landlord can evict them, but then it will leave you in a situation where you will be living in a place that is most likely more than you can afford, given the fact that you have another couple sharing the costs with you guys.
Alycia, with the relationship you have with your parents, is that really a good idea? That could end up being even more stressful for you and the kids. If my memory serves me correctly, they will not allow Brandon in their home so would he stay behind with the other couple?Originally Posted by Dixie_Darlin
Maybe I didn't make it clear about this. It is mine and Brandon's house. Their names are NOT on the lease, we paid the deposit for her to put it in her name because I was too busy trying to make everything happen around here.. IE, packing, arranging the U-Haul, meeting with the landlord, and our lawyer... and so on.
I mean I physically gave her the money and asked her to go to the power company to take care of it because I didn't have the time to go there. We literally had 3 days to move.
Today, I had a breakdown... I was sitting at a friend's house and it all hit me.
I think I'm just going to let her and her boyfriend have the house and I'm moving to my mom's.
I just can't handle it anymore. So if I'm not on for awhile, that's why.
The few years have taken a toll on me and I can't take anymore. I need peace, I need serenity, and more importantly, I can't go on like this..
I can't eat, I can't sleep and now, I don't even feel comfortable in my own home.
Thanks for all the great advice ya'll. I've learned that everyone has a breaking point, and tonight... I broke...
Bye for now...
That's what i was thinking as well?.Originally Posted by Yosemite
Alycia, with the relationship you have with your parents, is that really a good idea?