I had never heard you shouldn't put a feliway in a bedroom. I have them all over my house. I think you need to place one wherever Vinny will be spending the most time. If you don't want to put one in the bedroom, you might want to try the spray. I hate the smell of it, but it goes away after a bit.
When you bring him home, I would take him straight to your room or wherever he will be. It might be too much to start in the bathroom and then have to move him. You could bring him into the room, open the carrier and see what happens. If he seems agitated, you can leave him be for a bit and come back later. Make sure he has a litter box and food/water. You might want to have some calming music playing for him too. Allow him to explore and allow him to approach you. I would let him take the lead. If he seems aggressive, leave the space and try again later.
If there is something special he likes for wet food that would be a nice treat, but you don't want to upset his stomach by introducing new food. You could offer him a small amount of something special.
Make sure you are calm too. He will pick up on your angst. I know it's really hard, but it will help him to know you are calm. Tell him about your new plan. How he will need to stay in the bedroom until he is feeling better and that you are working on helping he and Leo get back to being buddies. I always tell my animals my plans!!
You are doing so much for Vinny and you seem super organized too!! Good luck tomorrow. Let us know how it goes.
When you bring him home, I would take him straight to your room or wherever he will be. It might be too much to start in the bathroom and then have to move him. You could bring him into the room, open the carrier and see what happens. If he seems agitated, you can leave him be for a bit and come back later. Make sure he has a litter box and food/water. You might want to have some calming music playing for him too. Allow him to explore and allow him to approach you. I would let him take the lead. If he seems aggressive, leave the space and try again later.
If there is something special he likes for wet food that would be a nice treat, but you don't want to upset his stomach by introducing new food. You could offer him a small amount of something special.
Make sure you are calm too. He will pick up on your angst. I know it's really hard, but it will help him to know you are calm. Tell him about your new plan. How he will need to stay in the bedroom until he is feeling better and that you are working on helping he and Leo get back to being buddies. I always tell my animals my plans!!
You are doing so much for Vinny and you seem super organized too!! Good luck tomorrow. Let us know how it goes.