I need some vibes right now....
On Thursday night one of my good friends and coworkers was on his way home from work. He rides his bike to and from work everyday. He ran a red light, like he always did, even after all of us told him he needed to be carefull. Well he was hit by a car. The prognosis is not good . The doctors have informed us that since he was not wearing a helmet
, ALWAYS WEAR A HELMET WHEN RIDING!!!!!! that he will not make it. The damage to his head is too much. They said they would wait for his family to arrive, they live in W. Virginia, we are in Southern California, they would give them time to say their goodbyes and then let him go. He crashed twice while the doctors waited for his family and said if he crashed again they would not do anything and let him go.
He can't breath on his own or anything. Basicly he is already gone. The doctors are just buying some time for his family. The doctors say by the end of tonight(saturday) he should be gone. So know its just the waiting game.
It sucks. He was only 22. One of the best guys I ever knew. He was always hapy and loved everyone. He did not have one mean bone in his body. I just don't know what to do right now. We are all still working and spending time together but its just wierd. I want to be at work but at the same time I don't. I just don't know how to feel. I am still very numb to the whole thing right now. I keep hopeing the phone will ring and it will be my boss telling me he will make it, that he is breathing on his own and the swelling has gone down. But I know deep down that will not happen. I feel horable for his family. The one saving grace is he just got back after a 3 week vaction with his whole family. So they will have some great memories.
I feel lost
I just don't know what to do.
He was hit just a few blocks from where I live. My DH and I heard the sirens that night and made comments on how something big must of happened. If we had only known what had happened. I would have been by his side. DH says to stop thinking that way, even if we had know there would have been nothing we could do. Its better that I didn't see him. My last memory was him telling me how he won 300 in Vegas with his family playing blackjack. He was trying to figure out how to spend it.
Why is it always to good people why can't it be someone who deserves it. I know thats a bad thing to say but its true. I just don't know what to do. I just want to run away and hide.
Sorry for rambleing but my mind is just spinning. Please pray that a miracle will happen and that he pulls through. Please pray that his family stays strong. Please pray that we all stay strong through this.
His name is Atip.......
Atip man please make it. I love you .
On Thursday night one of my good friends and coworkers was on his way home from work. He rides his bike to and from work everyday. He ran a red light, like he always did, even after all of us told him he needed to be carefull. Well he was hit by a car. The prognosis is not good . The doctors have informed us that since he was not wearing a helmet
He can't breath on his own or anything. Basicly he is already gone. The doctors are just buying some time for his family. The doctors say by the end of tonight(saturday) he should be gone. So know its just the waiting game.
It sucks. He was only 22. One of the best guys I ever knew. He was always hapy and loved everyone. He did not have one mean bone in his body. I just don't know what to do right now. We are all still working and spending time together but its just wierd. I want to be at work but at the same time I don't. I just don't know how to feel. I am still very numb to the whole thing right now. I keep hopeing the phone will ring and it will be my boss telling me he will make it, that he is breathing on his own and the swelling has gone down. But I know deep down that will not happen. I feel horable for his family. The one saving grace is he just got back after a 3 week vaction with his whole family. So they will have some great memories.
I feel lost
I just don't know what to do.
He was hit just a few blocks from where I live. My DH and I heard the sirens that night and made comments on how something big must of happened. If we had only known what had happened. I would have been by his side. DH says to stop thinking that way, even if we had know there would have been nothing we could do. Its better that I didn't see him. My last memory was him telling me how he won 300 in Vegas with his family playing blackjack. He was trying to figure out how to spend it.
Why is it always to good people why can't it be someone who deserves it. I know thats a bad thing to say but its true. I just don't know what to do. I just want to run away and hide.
Sorry for rambleing but my mind is just spinning. Please pray that a miracle will happen and that he pulls through. Please pray that his family stays strong. Please pray that we all stay strong through this.
His name is Atip.......
Atip man please make it. I love you .