Does anyone here have a friend of the opposite sex but is strictly platonic...I have this friend that says he wants to be platonic.. but when we go out (especially if drinking) he seems to want to be more, like tonight, he was holding my hand and stuff but when we said goodbye he just said goodbye, no kiss or anything...but I addressed the issue a year ago and he said no, just friends. The problem is, I am really attracted to him and find it difficult to be platonic without wanting an actual relationship. I don't know if I can continue the friendship charade, I am just too "into" him....What should I do??? By the way, we are totally compatible with everything else we want in life, just that he just wants to be friends but sometimes doesn't act like it....I am confused...