I am keeping up here with your thread!!! :bigthumb: AND that Orville is grooming near you now too!! This is a HUGE sign of trust. How exciting for you and for him, and I am even quite excited over this news! :high5:But the big news is that he has started grooming himself several feet away and today he began rolling on his back about 6-8 feet away from me. He is DEFINITELY male and DEFINITELY not neutered. I had the full view! (How nice for me! :lol3: ) He is, unfortunately, the type to be very skittish of traps so I'm hoping I can win his trust enough that he will go right into a carrier one of these mornings if I put a little tuna in a bowl in one. I'm concerned about him because he seems to be thinner and he is dining with me twice a day. I've added some wet food every now and then when it is just him and not the neighbor's little beggars. Today, I gave him a few small pieces of cold chicken.
I am certain that you will be able to begin feeding him inside that carrier soon. BUT, please be prepared for that to take a few days and a bit of a setback. Actually, what I would recommend is to begin to bring the carrier out there with you when you feed him. Maybe put the food bowl with the yummy wet food near the carrier. Just get him used to seeing it and over a few days move the bowl closer and closer to the front of the carrier. Keep the carrier door propped open all the time. In fact, if you can leave it out there under your porch all the time that would be great. After he is used to eating from his bowl in front of the carrier, then the next day, put the bowl inside of the carrier. Little by little, he will think nothing of it anymore. Once inside, and all the way back, and with you within an arms reach of that door, I think you will have him trapped!! Make sure you wear a GLOVE, please. When you quickly and swiftly shut that door, he will spin and go nuts and the claws may get you while you are trying to latch the door. Just be prepared with a gloved hand. :nod: He will be very, very, very upset but as you know, this is for his own benefit even though he doesn't know it yet.
Keep up the great, amazing work with him. I am in this with you, as you know. :rub:
p.s. It's not all that uncommon for the Tom cats to appear a bit thin during breeding season. Their hormones are on overdrive and once he is neutered, he will have a whole new viewpoint in life, a much more happy and healthy way for him to live!!
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