Now, I know I am a fussy cat mom, and my husband says im making too much of this, and honestly I should have written about this days ago...but I need advice!!
So our R.Male Otis is getting along with our new kitten (6mos) maggie. BUT the R Female Bella isnt. So here is what's been happening.
Bella will not attack maggie, but she will hiss and swat at her. They have been in the same room, and maggie avoids her, but that's it.
Otis knows that something isnt right, and bella will smell maggie on him and hiss at him, so now he is keeping his distance.
So here's what weve been doing...
1. reintroducing them. Maggie is meowing her head off in her own room, and I think its stressing out bella and its also stressing me out too! plus Ive been in pain the last couple of days(chronic) and ive had finals!!!
2. We have gotten some baby gates and have been letting them see each other. I dont know if we should be even letting them see each other.
3. We have also been switching rooms.
So...what does everyone think? Should we just let them hiss it out? Im just afraid that they will get stressed out .
Thanks everyone!!!!
So our R.Male Otis is getting along with our new kitten (6mos) maggie. BUT the R Female Bella isnt. So here is what's been happening.
Bella will not attack maggie, but she will hiss and swat at her. They have been in the same room, and maggie avoids her, but that's it.
Otis knows that something isnt right, and bella will smell maggie on him and hiss at him, so now he is keeping his distance.
So here's what weve been doing...
1. reintroducing them. Maggie is meowing her head off in her own room, and I think its stressing out bella and its also stressing me out too! plus Ive been in pain the last couple of days(chronic) and ive had finals!!!
2. We have gotten some baby gates and have been letting them see each other. I dont know if we should be even letting them see each other.
3. We have also been switching rooms.
So...what does everyone think? Should we just let them hiss it out? Im just afraid that they will get stressed out .
Thanks everyone!!!!