Alrighty. I dated a guy named Kyle for about a year and a half. We broke up in May of last year on not the best of terms. It's a very very complicated situation because he is my older brother's best friend and there was just an insane amount of drama going on with his family and me. I left him to be with my current boyfriend Josh. Now I admit I didn't handle the situation as best I could, but the past is the past. Anyway, it was very obvious he was still in love with me and he tried very hard to convince me to get back together with him. He shipped off for basic training and AIT in November of last year, so I obviously haven't talked to him since then.
Well apparently he is back, at least for a little bit, because he just called me. I didn't pick up. He left me a voicemail saying he wasn't trying to bug me he just wanted to talk for a bit and see how I was doing. Before he left I really did want to remain friends with him because he is a good guy, but it just wouldn't work. He would always try to turn it into romance and it wasn't fair to him. I couldn't talk to him or see him without him bringing the subject of "us" up, even though I was very clear that our romantic relationship was not working and would not work.
He is shipping to Iraq (with my brother) in February of this coming year. Obviously I would like to spend sometime with him before he leaves. But I don't want to hurt him and I don't want to create anymore tension, especially with his family.
So, what do you guys think? Any advice?
Well apparently he is back, at least for a little bit, because he just called me. I didn't pick up. He left me a voicemail saying he wasn't trying to bug me he just wanted to talk for a bit and see how I was doing. Before he left I really did want to remain friends with him because he is a good guy, but it just wouldn't work. He would always try to turn it into romance and it wasn't fair to him. I couldn't talk to him or see him without him bringing the subject of "us" up, even though I was very clear that our romantic relationship was not working and would not work.
He is shipping to Iraq (with my brother) in February of this coming year. Obviously I would like to spend sometime with him before he leaves. But I don't want to hurt him and I don't want to create anymore tension, especially with his family.
So, what do you guys think? Any advice?