A good friend left work in May. Ever since she left I've sent her voice mails, emails & text msgs, she respond none of them. While the emails & text msgs are mainly jokes or things like 'I saw a hot guy' so I don't expect her to respond; however some VMs I specifically said to call since I haven't heard from her. It's not like I called 10x a day; about once or twice a month.
I happen to know she talks to another friend (all 3 of us work in the same dept) at least once a week. I'm fine with that. That friend (not the one that left work) is getting married in Oct & both of us are her bridesmaids. Today I got an email from her telling me how to throw a bridal shower @ work. Okay, I guess I'm fine with that as well. However I have problem w/ her not calling, and when I finally hear from her instead of 'what's up' or 'how ya doing', it's tasks XYZ.
It really hurts me that she never called. We've been friends for 7 yrs and I've always been there for her during harsh times. I feel I should talk to her but on the other hand I feel stupid because it's going to sound like "you only talk to A but how come you never talk to me". What should I do?
I happen to know she talks to another friend (all 3 of us work in the same dept) at least once a week. I'm fine with that. That friend (not the one that left work) is getting married in Oct & both of us are her bridesmaids. Today I got an email from her telling me how to throw a bridal shower @ work. Okay, I guess I'm fine with that as well. However I have problem w/ her not calling, and when I finally hear from her instead of 'what's up' or 'how ya doing', it's tasks XYZ.
It really hurts me that she never called. We've been friends for 7 yrs and I've always been there for her during harsh times. I feel I should talk to her but on the other hand I feel stupid because it's going to sound like "you only talk to A but how come you never talk to me". What should I do?