Spraying is usually a cat's way of saying "This is mine!" So, when he sprayed your side of the bed, he was basically telling all other animals (including humans, perhaps) that you belong to him and no one else! Thank goodness he sprayed your bed instead of spraying you!Originally posted by spookiesmom
Early this morning he sprayed the side of the bed I sleep on..I think he's trying to tell me something?!?
Make sure you clean that spot and, when dry, spray it every morning and evening with Feliway. Also, you might just sit down and tell him that he is your big boy and that no one is going to get in the way of that, and that he doesn't need to spray because you won't let anyone else take you away from him. I know it sounds silly, but having conversations with your cat can help calm their anxieties!