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Hey All
,
As many of you know I do not have family, I have friends. My friends mean more to me then anything. I am one of the few people who believe blood is not always thicker then water. I would do anything for my friends, and they would do anything for me.
As some of you know my love life is a disaster. I have only dated two men, in my whole life (about 30 something years worth). Both have died. Both have died from medical issues
.
So, with that background, I am going to "air some of my life" to all of you. Okay, as some of you know one of my friends has been very sick. I have been at his bedside for about two months. He is doing better, and will be home for the holiday season/new year. I am so happy
. For me, that is the best present of all
.
So, you ask, where is the problem. The problem is two fold. One is, tonight he asked me to marry him
. Yea, I know, single depressed women asked to get married, that is such a problem. The problem is that, since I do not have family, I do not want to ruin a friendship. That is not a way of saying I do not want to marry him. I really do. He is sweet, hot, handsome, and great man.
I guess I am just confused/in shock? Please folks, weigh in on this issue? I just found this out about two hours ago, when he had a nurse present me a ring. With him on "bended knee".
Second issue, he has a four year old child, that I love and he loves. Said child and foundation Savannah cat yield disaster. The child is small/young/short/makes fast jerky movements. This makes Loki run around like a man, as in more crazy and hyper then normal. Loki will jump from the floor to my should (around five feet) or from the floor to my umm "husband to be" shoulder (six plus feet). When Loki does this, he does it with such power. He "does not mean to hurt you (human)" but he sure does. When he does this to a small child, he knocks over said child. Then the child RIGHTFULLY gets upset/loud, which only makes the cat MORE "excited".
So, the next issue is: How do I have this child not be "messed with" by said cat and the cat not live in his "cat safe room" 24/7?
Thank you all for the input. I am sorry for the poor spelling and grammar. My brain is on overload right now.
As many of you know I do not have family, I have friends. My friends mean more to me then anything. I am one of the few people who believe blood is not always thicker then water. I would do anything for my friends, and they would do anything for me.
As some of you know my love life is a disaster. I have only dated two men, in my whole life (about 30 something years worth). Both have died. Both have died from medical issues
So, with that background, I am going to "air some of my life" to all of you. Okay, as some of you know one of my friends has been very sick. I have been at his bedside for about two months. He is doing better, and will be home for the holiday season/new year. I am so happy
So, you ask, where is the problem. The problem is two fold. One is, tonight he asked me to marry him
I guess I am just confused/in shock? Please folks, weigh in on this issue? I just found this out about two hours ago, when he had a nurse present me a ring. With him on "bended knee".
Second issue, he has a four year old child, that I love and he loves. Said child and foundation Savannah cat yield disaster. The child is small/young/short/makes fast jerky movements. This makes Loki run around like a man, as in more crazy and hyper then normal. Loki will jump from the floor to my should (around five feet) or from the floor to my umm "husband to be" shoulder (six plus feet). When Loki does this, he does it with such power. He "does not mean to hurt you (human)" but he sure does. When he does this to a small child, he knocks over said child. Then the child RIGHTFULLY gets upset/loud, which only makes the cat MORE "excited".
So, the next issue is: How do I have this child not be "messed with" by said cat and the cat not live in his "cat safe room" 24/7?
Thank you all for the input. I am sorry for the poor spelling and grammar. My brain is on overload right now.