Originally Posted by bastetservant
This is a terrible situation for you. Not to know is the worst thing. I'm so very sorry.
I'm still thinking of Mike, and feralvr's Yogi, everyday, several times a day and giving prayers that they both come home safely.
It is very understandable and appropriate that you are depressed about this. It's a devastating loss. I'd be inconsolable.
As long as you have the strength to carry on doing the things you've been trying to do to find him, even putting up the flyers over and over, calling every shelter (or visiting them) within a 30 mile radius, etc. as long as you can stand to do it, it's worth doing. As heidik said, cats are often found long after they are lost.
I won't be stopping my prayers
Robin