Oooo...that's too bad. Sounds like basically she's a "fair weathered" friend. I had one like that too (hence why I don't hang out with girls that much). She was single for a long time, then found this guy. The instant she started dating him she stopped returning my calls and emailing me back (she was only 20 minutes away too).Originally Posted by katiemae1277
I guess the main reason I wanted to know about this was, after my divorce I got to be really good friends with a girl, that was a friend of a friend, we'd known each other for awhile but had never hung out. Well anyway, all last year we did everything together, she lived an hour away and I would drive to see her all the time etc, then she got a new BF and basically stopped talking to me as much, so I told her that wasn't very cool, that I had never ditched her for any of the guys I had dated in that year... apparently she didn't want to hear that because she hasn't talked to me in about 5 months, but I guess that really showed what kind of friend she was, it just upsets me, cause my mom always told me boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever-apparently she never got that lesson
After 5 months they broke it off. THAT'S when I got the email saying she's free now to go bar hopping and find her a new guy. It really disgusted me, so I told her that I didn't appreciate being ignored for 5 months. We stopped talking after my email back.
Your friend is busy concentrating on the friendship so basically she's giving up her girlfriends. It's not right, but there are plenty o' girls out there that will do what they can in the name of some boy!