Sorry in advance for the long post.
My husband and I took in a stray cat about a month ago. We have a resident cat that is about 5 years old and she's never been around other cats. The new cat spent the first two weeks in our spare room in the basement. They did see each other a couple of times during that time. Then we moved him to our spare room upstairs (so he could have a window and it would be easier for them to interact under the door.
At first Abby (resident cat) was afraid of Buddy (he's 2-3 yrs old and one third her size), she would run under the bed and hide. Gradually she has gotten braver and will go up to the door and lay on her back and stick her nose under the door. She used to run if he would put a paw under the door but she did finally swat at him. I put him in a carrier and let then see each other. The first time she was completely freaked, the other two times she wouldn't come out from under the coffee table.
Last night I got a baby gate and put it up so they could see each other. He doesn't seem aggressive to her just curious (she growls and it looks like he's licking his lips). She was verrrrrry freaked out, she was growling and hissing. She did finally calm down and was meatloafing in front of the door but then she got freaked out by him and ran and hid under the bed for two hours.
It's been a month and I'm afraid this isn't going to work because Abby is not getting any better. :-(
Any advise or suggestions would be greatly appreciated because if we can't keep him I have no idea what to do with him (not a lot of options in my area).
Plus I love the little bugger.
My husband and I took in a stray cat about a month ago. We have a resident cat that is about 5 years old and she's never been around other cats. The new cat spent the first two weeks in our spare room in the basement. They did see each other a couple of times during that time. Then we moved him to our spare room upstairs (so he could have a window and it would be easier for them to interact under the door.
At first Abby (resident cat) was afraid of Buddy (he's 2-3 yrs old and one third her size), she would run under the bed and hide. Gradually she has gotten braver and will go up to the door and lay on her back and stick her nose under the door. She used to run if he would put a paw under the door but she did finally swat at him. I put him in a carrier and let then see each other. The first time she was completely freaked, the other two times she wouldn't come out from under the coffee table.
Last night I got a baby gate and put it up so they could see each other. He doesn't seem aggressive to her just curious (she growls and it looks like he's licking his lips). She was verrrrrry freaked out, she was growling and hissing. She did finally calm down and was meatloafing in front of the door but then she got freaked out by him and ran and hid under the bed for two hours.
It's been a month and I'm afraid this isn't going to work because Abby is not getting any better. :-(
Any advise or suggestions would be greatly appreciated because if we can't keep him I have no idea what to do with him (not a lot of options in my area).
Plus I love the little bugger.