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Catwoman707- it is easy to misconstrue someone's intent online and I believe you when you say it was unintentional. Thank you for letting me know. After writing of my decision, your replies *appeared* to me to be asking why I would consider kitty heaven already, when he only has diarrhea. It sucks I have no official diagnosis, but it also sucks to watch my beloved baby wasting away. Seeing his pics from yesterday morning broke my heart. My work in app for the vet is between 2-3:00 (moved from 4:00) and I'll be asking a lot of questions I've wrote down and only after I'm satisfied with the answers will I actually make that final decision. But almost anyone seeing him waste away and his med history can pretty much predict what my vet's answers will be but he won't push anything on me. He's a good man.
I'm sorry we got off on the wrong foot. I'd actually wanted to ask you just out of curiosity what you *thought* Milo's problem is. There's so little to go on and I also realized my cancer hypothesis can't be right, as results of his protein levels would've given that away. I'd really be interested to hear your thoughts about Milo. You and I are both on the same page that not having a diagnosis is very frustrating, but I've tried to help him in every way I could to get that answer- it just hasn't happened. Even one of the top US vet teaching hospitals couldn't give me a much hoped for diagnosis.
If you should happen to read this, I'd appreciate hearing your thoughts.
Mary
I'm sorry we got off on the wrong foot. I'd actually wanted to ask you just out of curiosity what you *thought* Milo's problem is. There's so little to go on and I also realized my cancer hypothesis can't be right, as results of his protein levels would've given that away. I'd really be interested to hear your thoughts about Milo. You and I are both on the same page that not having a diagnosis is very frustrating, but I've tried to help him in every way I could to get that answer- it just hasn't happened. Even one of the top US vet teaching hospitals couldn't give me a much hoped for diagnosis.
If you should happen to read this, I'd appreciate hearing your thoughts.
Mary
I am so shocked at how you perceived my posts and comments.
I've never ever been accused of coming across as angry, sarcastic, one upping or shaming.
SHOCKED.
I am an extremely compassionate person, when I offer advice or support here, it feels closer than simply over the internet, like my next door neighbor who is suffering and her cat is suffering, it hurts my heart if the outcome is bad, and it thrills me when I have helped make a cat and the owner feel better.
That's why I'm here!
I certainly had no intent what-so-ever to worsen your pain, I am nearly speechless, I can't understand what I said to make you think I'm such a terrible person.
That said, I will leave your thread as surely you will be glad for, but if I used the wrong words or maybe it's my way of typing how I talk, which might be mistook somehow, I am truly sorry for this.
I suppose if you knew me as a person, which of course you don't, but you would know that I would rather hurt myself than hurt another person or animal.
I only wish you the very best for you and your cat.
Gosh, never in my life have I heard anyone say the things you have said about me, you are clearly worn down, maybe that is why, I don't know, but I won't bother you with my meaningless hurtful and heartless posts again.
I'm truly sorry.