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His last vet visit was March 14th. This was for his FVRCP (the first visit got to be too much and they opted to wait), and his grooming appointment which was done at the vet's office. Good news was that the vet told me they had a bit of an easier time handling him at that visit so he was getting better with other humans messing with him..This is just my opinion, and I could be wrong, but I wouldn't put Fluffy through another vet visit, sedation and bath at this time. It could be too distressing for him right now. It's been 3 weeks since his vet visit, right? His scent is already in the house. The main issue you are likely dealing with now is one of territory. Fluffy has taken over one of their rooms, and taking up some of your attention, so they are a bit jealous. I think it's wonderful that a few of them will play with Fluffy in his safe room, that's exactly the right way to do it.
Sooo.. no one is playing with Fluffy except for us (poor Fluffy!). I am sorry if I confused anyone.
I totally get the territory/jealousy thing. Daisy gets jealous of Milo and Lilly and they've been her family for 6-10 years.
Maybe we should also do more swapping where we keep him in our master bathroom and let them roam around the rest of the house? In addition to putting Milo in Fluffy's room and focusing on him getting to know Fluffy better?
I think you've convinced me to get a "vacation feeder"; one of those that holds a bunch of food for Fluffy, in his room. And during feeding times we can put it out near the gate and feed the others opposite the gate like we have. He may not be hungry then though, since he probably would eat throughout the day but it makes sense. Maybe I could just leave some in the feeder during the day but not keep it full, and fill it more when we feed the others so that he's not done so fast. He is always done way before them and then freaks them out when he's no longer occupied by food.Regarding the food situation, it's been my experience that strays and ferals often have had issues with hunger and even starvation while they were outside. So they are anxious about food. Which is why I leave out dry food 24/7 at different feeding stations. I don't want any of my cats to ever feel stressed about the availability of food. In the beginning, the new cat may gobble down food as much and often as he can, but after a while he'll relax and no longer gorge himself.
By the way, Fluffy has many names I'd like to share and you may get a kick out of...
-Fluffmaster Flex
-Fluffykins
-Fluffernutter
-Fluffy