Cat Spirit I think you might have missed reading a few posts......
Heidi - I think you've made a REALLY important point, and I expect you're right. It sure speaks to the point that there IS no "right" and "wrong" here.Just as a point to bring up, when the human equivalent of this feline disease came to light (HIV), there were two opposite schools of thought. One was utter paranoia that it could be spread through casual contact, toilet seats, and yes even cats. People were hysterical about it. I see this as the "test everything in sight and euthanize all FIV+ cats in all circumstances" thought in this discussion. On the other side of the coin were those who thought, well, it's only gays and intravenious drug users who will get AIDS, so I can go about life as usual. I see that as the "Don't test, let them be" thought here. We all know, through much learning about HIV and AIDS that both of these ideas were false. I expect much the same to happen in the coming years dealing with FIV.