I understand if you guys have no sympathy for me because I only have myself to blame.
Last week my boyfriend gave me his email password so I could download some files I sent him onto my laptop. So on the pretence of getting more files I went back into his account yesterday, mainly to see if heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d changed his password and have a snoop.
When I went to his inbox I found an introductory letter to an explicit sex-dating website.
I rang my friend and we went on the website to see if heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d made a profile but found nothing (but I did get bored/creeped out at looking at all the weirdos on the site and stopped looking quite quickly).
She said I should register a fake profile and check and see if he responded which I did. But I was so mad that I txt him to tell him what Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d found.
His reasoning is that my looking at his emails is just as bad as him reading my diary (something he did once which I havent really forgiven him for) and going on that site is no worse than me looking at porn! – by this he means the ancient video one of my friends has that we watched one time at a party. TWO YEARS AGO – before we were going out.
Then he tried to tell me he subscribed to the site years ago and he must still be on the mailing list. My argument is if you subscribed years ago why would they be sending you an email now thanking you for registering? Plus as weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]ve been together a year and a half now isnt that ample time to de-register from a hard core dating site?
The thing is the site was really funny and a bit pathetic. If this was someone else Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d really laugh. Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m more annoyed that he keeps lying to me than the actual site. I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t think he had any intention of meeting up with anyone, it was just an ego boost or a ‘what if ‘ thing.
I shouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t have read his email, I guess now I know what they mean when they say ignorance is bliss.
Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m so sick of him lying to me. Heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s always telling me stupid little lies and Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m really sick of it. We split up a few months ago and he told me heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d changed but now I realised that was another lie.
If you were me what would you think? What would you do?
Last week my boyfriend gave me his email password so I could download some files I sent him onto my laptop. So on the pretence of getting more files I went back into his account yesterday, mainly to see if heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d changed his password and have a snoop.
When I went to his inbox I found an introductory letter to an explicit sex-dating website.
I rang my friend and we went on the website to see if heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d made a profile but found nothing (but I did get bored/creeped out at looking at all the weirdos on the site and stopped looking quite quickly).
She said I should register a fake profile and check and see if he responded which I did. But I was so mad that I txt him to tell him what Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d found.
His reasoning is that my looking at his emails is just as bad as him reading my diary (something he did once which I havent really forgiven him for) and going on that site is no worse than me looking at porn! – by this he means the ancient video one of my friends has that we watched one time at a party. TWO YEARS AGO – before we were going out.
Then he tried to tell me he subscribed to the site years ago and he must still be on the mailing list. My argument is if you subscribed years ago why would they be sending you an email now thanking you for registering? Plus as weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]ve been together a year and a half now isnt that ample time to de-register from a hard core dating site?
The thing is the site was really funny and a bit pathetic. If this was someone else Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d really laugh. Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m more annoyed that he keeps lying to me than the actual site. I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t think he had any intention of meeting up with anyone, it was just an ego boost or a ‘what if ‘ thing.
I shouldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t have read his email, I guess now I know what they mean when they say ignorance is bliss.
Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m so sick of him lying to me. Heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s always telling me stupid little lies and Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m really sick of it. We split up a few months ago and he told me heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d changed but now I realised that was another lie.
If you were me what would you think? What would you do?