{{{{Viva}}}} im so sorry
I agree 100% with this. Go ahead and do your crying, but don't let him keep you on a string with that vague promise that he might be back in January. You know its pretty typical for guys to want the security of a fall back girlfriend. He wants to meet someone else, but if that doesn't work out, maybe try getting back with you again. Don't let him use you like that! You need to be strong on your own..............don't wait for him. Cry, grieve, get good and mad!