That's right, Alex and I have broken up.
I'm so sad! He's moving to Colorado, too, in two weeks. He put in his notice at work today. He took me out to dinner to tell me this.
Basically, he still loves me, and has missed me the past few days. But he thinks that since we've grown up, we haven't really had individual identities. He says we were great together as kids, but we don't know about as adults. He thinks we need to separate for now, figure out what we want out of life, and then see if those adults that we have turned into can really get along and be happy together. (Our relationship had been stressed before this . . . ) So, he has promised to come back in January to try to restart a relationship, and "start over".
But, also, we are both free to "date" other people over the next two months. So, he could always find someone to replace me.
Anyways, I just got home, and went and took my engagement ring off. It felt like I was tearing my heart out. Just wanted to keep you guys posted. Thanks for listening.
Basically, he still loves me, and has missed me the past few days. But he thinks that since we've grown up, we haven't really had individual identities. He says we were great together as kids, but we don't know about as adults. He thinks we need to separate for now, figure out what we want out of life, and then see if those adults that we have turned into can really get along and be happy together. (Our relationship had been stressed before this . . . ) So, he has promised to come back in January to try to restart a relationship, and "start over".
Anyways, I just got home, and went and took my engagement ring off. It felt like I was tearing my heart out. Just wanted to keep you guys posted. Thanks for listening.