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I'd like to get some advice/opinions on what happened to my cat while I was away.
I went away for Thanksgiving. I left Thursday morning and returned Monday night. I had my boyfriend come and check on Copper (my cat).
I've known/been dating my boyfriend for ~7months. He says he is allergic to cats and never had any animals as pets. He tries to stay away from Copper as much a possible, but he will pet him if he comes and rubs against him. I've seen my BF give him treats and tuna on occasion. I've also seen him shoo my cat away if he gets too close to his gym bag. He hates cat hair.
After I went away, I got a text from my BF saying my cat had pooped 3 times on the carpet in my living room. This has never happened before. He cleaned it up for me. The BF said he checked in on him everyday that I was away.
When I got back, I opened the door to my apartment and Copper was no where to be seen. He always meet me at the door. I called out his name and I heard a distress call coming from behind my curtains. Copper was cowering behind the curtains and would not budge. He looked very scared. It took a little coaxing, but I got him to come out and I could hold him. I noticed he had some bruising on the outside of his ears. Then came a knock on my door, which sent Copper running to hide inside his litterbox. I've never seen him do this either. The only person who frequently knocks on my door is my BF. The rest of the night Copper was fine and acted like his normal self.
I took him to the vet today and the vet said said he has more bruising deeper inside his ears. Consistent with either running into a wall or being kicked. I explained all of what I wrote above to my vet and he used "suspicious" to describe the injuries to Coppers ears.
I flat out asked my BF if he kicked Copper. He said no. He said he's always told me if he's stepped on his tail or paw by accident, which he has done. However, he was very unconvincing and unusually calm for being accused of animal cruelty.
There is a chance a maintenance worker came in and hurt Copper, or someone broke in, but my gut says it my BF.
Thoughts, please?
I went away for Thanksgiving. I left Thursday morning and returned Monday night. I had my boyfriend come and check on Copper (my cat).
I've known/been dating my boyfriend for ~7months. He says he is allergic to cats and never had any animals as pets. He tries to stay away from Copper as much a possible, but he will pet him if he comes and rubs against him. I've seen my BF give him treats and tuna on occasion. I've also seen him shoo my cat away if he gets too close to his gym bag. He hates cat hair.
After I went away, I got a text from my BF saying my cat had pooped 3 times on the carpet in my living room. This has never happened before. He cleaned it up for me. The BF said he checked in on him everyday that I was away.
When I got back, I opened the door to my apartment and Copper was no where to be seen. He always meet me at the door. I called out his name and I heard a distress call coming from behind my curtains. Copper was cowering behind the curtains and would not budge. He looked very scared. It took a little coaxing, but I got him to come out and I could hold him. I noticed he had some bruising on the outside of his ears. Then came a knock on my door, which sent Copper running to hide inside his litterbox. I've never seen him do this either. The only person who frequently knocks on my door is my BF. The rest of the night Copper was fine and acted like his normal self.
I took him to the vet today and the vet said said he has more bruising deeper inside his ears. Consistent with either running into a wall or being kicked. I explained all of what I wrote above to my vet and he used "suspicious" to describe the injuries to Coppers ears.
I flat out asked my BF if he kicked Copper. He said no. He said he's always told me if he's stepped on his tail or paw by accident, which he has done. However, he was very unconvincing and unusually calm for being accused of animal cruelty.
There is a chance a maintenance worker came in and hurt Copper, or someone broke in, but my gut says it my BF.
Thoughts, please?
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