I need some major vibes right now

[phenomsmom]

I am late on this topic but crossing my fingers that everything goes well tonight and it all turns out to be nothing!

 

[miagi's_mommy]

good luck tonight, Nikki!

I will be thinking of you.

 

[jenny82]

I hope everything went well!

 

[katachtig]

Hey Nikki, I hope you're doing ok.

 

[phenomsmom]

Thinking about you a lot today! Hope to see an update soon!

 

[starryeyedtiger]

Hey everyone,
I just wanted to update everyone about last night. Thanks to all of the prayers, vibes, and excellent advice- everything went really well last night! Yea!!

Colin and I talked about two hours over it and it was all just really open and honest. I asked him in the kitchen last night- I was like " Hey Sweetie! Mind if I ask you a question real quick, It's nothing major, just something I was curious about...so that way he knew I was being kind and non accusitory....I simply told him that while I was looking for the tape measure the other night, I accidently ran across those free passes, and since I know he doesn't go, I was curious as to why he had them." He was really sweet about the whole thing and told me he hadn't been in two years since he meet me, (I 100% believe him too...) that he had had them before he started dating me. When he was in the Navy, one of his buddies gave him some a long time back, and he just never threw them away because he thought of them as something he could make money off of by selling or something like that. He said that he was really sorry and didn't realize how strongly I felt about them, that he ment nothing by them at all and he definitely didn't mean to upset me. He kindly agreed to get rid of them. So i'm gonna trust him on that one and let him get rid of them. So overall, everything went well last night! Thankfully! It wasn't half as bad as I was thinking- so that's good. Sorry I didn't update last night. It was pretty late when I talked to him. We all got dinner after we picked him up from the airport (his flight was late so that took a while.) So I didn't ask him about it till late last night, and after we talked, we went to bed. This morning I had a class, so i'm just now getting around to posting. Thanks for all those kind words and vibes everyone. I recieved some really good advice on here and i'm definitely appreciative of that. All of those prayers,vibes, and bits of adviced definitely helped!!! Colin and I are doing great today and are back to our normal happy selves. Thankyou soo much everyone for everything- it's amazing how supportive and caring the people on TCS can truly be. I definitely appreciate that.

Have a good day everyone
Nikki

 

[kittylover4ever]

 

[goosehazel]

That's awesome news!! I'm glad everything went okay

 

[phenomsmom]

I am so glad that it turned out to be NOTHING!!!

 

[miagi's_mommy]

I'm glad everything went well and glad it was nothing!!

 

[crystal211]

I'm late on this...I just wanted to send *hugs* to you. In a previous relationship I went through many lies dealing with the same thing (I'm 100% against porn and strip clubs) and I still get uneasy even dealing with the subject because of how much pain I went through. I'm glad everything worked out...it's not always as bad as you think it is, and I'm glad this was one of those cases.

 

[crittermom]

I am sooooooo happy things went as well as you hoped they would!!!
Have faith that he will get rid of those passes

 

[starryeyedtiger]

Thankyou everyone! Ya'll have been aweomse. I'm also really glad this it wasn't too much of an issue and everything went well. He agreed to get rid of them, so I trust him since he says he will....so hopefully he will soon

)

 

[katachtig]

It seems that not knowing is the worst part of this. I'm glad you were able to talk with him and not pin him to the wall with accusations. Things like this come up. How you handle them is totally up to you.

Congrats.

 

[starryeyedtiger]

Originally Posted by katachtig

It seems that not knowing is the worst part of this. I'm glad you were able to talk with him and not pin him to the wall with accusations. Things like this come up. How you handle them is totally up to you.

Congrats.

Thankyou. I definitely agree with you.

It went really well. I was just open and honest and completly non accusitory with him so that he would feel comfortable being open and honest with me. Works great

. Everything thankfully turned out great and we had a lovely night last night afterwards.

 

[neetanddave]

You showed great maturity for a such a young lady, glad things are working out.

 

[starryeyedtiger]

Originally Posted by neetanddave

You showed great maturity for a such a young lady, glad things are working out.

Thankyou, I really appreciate that.

 

[abymummy]

Yay! If I were you, I'd frame those passes coz it's a landmark in your relationship! Well done!

 

[gingersmom]

Yay! I'm so glad for you!!!

Big hugs for handling this the right way - Colin sounds like one heck of a keeper!!! I'm glad it's all worked out now!!!

 

[starryeyedtiger]

Originally Posted by GingersMom

Yay! I'm so glad for you!!!

Big hugs for handling this the right way - Colin sounds like one heck of a keeper!!! I'm glad it's all worked out now!!!

Thankyou! He's definitely a keeper

he actually just left to go to juvie hall....had to go into work early today to testify on a case he responded to (some teenage boy beat the holy terror out of his little girlfriend...so Colin is going in to help testify on the girlfriends behalf

) He's a good guy- and is definitely always helping people too. I respect him a lot for that.