Help! I don't know what to do...
Here's the situation. First of all I am 19 and my husband is 20. My husband wants to go to a strip club with some of his guy friends from work. (One of the guys is married and the other one isn't) At first when he told me, I got really mad and was crying and I told him that he couldn't go because I didn't want him too. He asked me one time before if he could go and I told him yes after we argued about it. ( this was early on in our relationship, and he didn't end up going that time when I told him that he could go.)
Now he says that his friend who is married will bring his wife and he will bring me if we want to come...I don't really have any interest in going to a strip club though (and this one is a totally nude strip club), but I don't know if I am just jealous because I don't like the thought of the dancers throwing themselves at him and dancing all up on him???
I really don't know what to do...I know that if I go with him that I will probably get mad when he cheers and yells at the stripers. So, I don't know if I'm just being unfair and selfish to not let him go since he's never been to one and all of his guy friends have? Or maybe that strip clubs aren't really as bad as I think they are?
Any advice would be great! Thanks everyone for listening...I know that this is a long post.
Sarah
Here's the situation. First of all I am 19 and my husband is 20. My husband wants to go to a strip club with some of his guy friends from work. (One of the guys is married and the other one isn't) At first when he told me, I got really mad and was crying and I told him that he couldn't go because I didn't want him too. He asked me one time before if he could go and I told him yes after we argued about it. ( this was early on in our relationship, and he didn't end up going that time when I told him that he could go.)
Now he says that his friend who is married will bring his wife and he will bring me if we want to come...I don't really have any interest in going to a strip club though (and this one is a totally nude strip club), but I don't know if I am just jealous because I don't like the thought of the dancers throwing themselves at him and dancing all up on him???
I really don't know what to do...I know that if I go with him that I will probably get mad when he cheers and yells at the stripers. So, I don't know if I'm just being unfair and selfish to not let him go since he's never been to one and all of his guy friends have? Or maybe that strip clubs aren't really as bad as I think they are?
Any advice would be great! Thanks everyone for listening...I know that this is a long post.
Sarah