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I don't even know how to write this, I just wanted somewhere for my boy to be remembered. I can't stop crying as I type this. I'm sorry if it doesn't make much sense.
Some of you have followed my posts on here, my boy was often sick and struggling with digestion issues. We had him on antibiotics three times for bugs, but we never anticipated what would happen yesterday morning. An hour before it happened he was snuggling with us in bed. I even got up to give him his food and he gobbled it up -- I went back to sleep. Then, I was woken by the sound of his cries. I ran out to the living room - he was lying on the couch crying and struggling to catch a breath. We panicked, picked him up to take him to the emergency, but he had already passed away before we could get out of the house. I just don't understand, one minute he's normal and with us in bed, the next I'm sitting at the emergency clinic holding his dead body in my arms. They said he had heart failure. I don't understand - he was fine. He had no symptoms of heart problems. I can't handle this. Why did this have to happen to him? He was only 9 months old, just a baby. I miss him so much.
We adopted him in the summer time - I was going through a deep depression, had no motivation for anything. When I saw him at the shelter we made a connection. I named him "Neo," it means "gift" in Tswana. He was my gift. He saved me. He pulled me out the darkness and he was the only one who knew how to brighten my day. He was the sweetest little boy - loved to snuggle and get belly rubs.
I just can't believe this is happening. The house feels so empty and wrong without him. I can't be here without him. I don't know how to cope. I keep remembering him crying, struggling to breathe. I couldn't help him. I didn't want him to be in pain, I didn't want him to struggle. I couldn't save him. I failed him.
I just don't want to let him go. He was my baby, my best friend, my light in the dark. I feel like a part of me is gone.
Please come back to me.
Some of you have followed my posts on here, my boy was often sick and struggling with digestion issues. We had him on antibiotics three times for bugs, but we never anticipated what would happen yesterday morning. An hour before it happened he was snuggling with us in bed. I even got up to give him his food and he gobbled it up -- I went back to sleep. Then, I was woken by the sound of his cries. I ran out to the living room - he was lying on the couch crying and struggling to catch a breath. We panicked, picked him up to take him to the emergency, but he had already passed away before we could get out of the house. I just don't understand, one minute he's normal and with us in bed, the next I'm sitting at the emergency clinic holding his dead body in my arms. They said he had heart failure. I don't understand - he was fine. He had no symptoms of heart problems. I can't handle this. Why did this have to happen to him? He was only 9 months old, just a baby. I miss him so much.
We adopted him in the summer time - I was going through a deep depression, had no motivation for anything. When I saw him at the shelter we made a connection. I named him "Neo," it means "gift" in Tswana. He was my gift. He saved me. He pulled me out the darkness and he was the only one who knew how to brighten my day. He was the sweetest little boy - loved to snuggle and get belly rubs.
I just can't believe this is happening. The house feels so empty and wrong without him. I can't be here without him. I don't know how to cope. I keep remembering him crying, struggling to breathe. I couldn't help him. I didn't want him to be in pain, I didn't want him to struggle. I couldn't save him. I failed him.
I just don't want to let him go. He was my baby, my best friend, my light in the dark. I feel like a part of me is gone.
Please come back to me.